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SUCCESS: Doing MY Thing, Minding MY Own Business
Posted by at 31st July, 2009
By Eva Gregory, CPCC
Does worrying about what others think of you, or what you are doing cause you anxiety and sleepless nights? Do you tailor your actions or behavior to the opinions of others? If so, then have I found a book title for you! I have not read the book by Terry Cole Whitaker, but when I saw it, it really struck a chord. The title is “What You Think of Me is None of My Business”. How cool is that?! Doesn’t it make you go, “hmmm”?
Imagine how liberating it would be to adopt this title as your personal motto and put it into practice. Envision yourself looking at the captions on a magazine cover and not caring what the latest expert says is acceptable, fashionable, or tolerable. How about being able to attend this year’s holiday parties without caring what colleagues, acquaintances, relatives or friends are thinking about you? Can you feel the self-confidence and positive energy that radiates when you make the decision to let someone else take ownership of their beliefs, ideas, or negativity? Phyllis, Julie and Trevor had to experience it first hand to feel it.
Phyllis, Julie, and Trevor have been friends since childhood. They have mutual friends and work for the same company. They have also all experienced the phenomena of letting someone else’s hang-ups become their own. They were not looking forward to the holiday season because they knew what kinds of comments typically awaited them. This year they got together at Thanksgiving and decided that they were tired of being victims. They prepared for the holiday festivities with excitement knowing that THEY were going to seize control, and that they had each other for support.
When Phyllis arrived at the company Christmas party alone and immediately ran into a very happily married co-worker, instead of letting her co-worker’s snide comment about being dateless bother her, she replied that she welcomed the opportunity to meet other people, and had intentionally come solo. She felt great as she walked away and left her co-worker fumbling for a retort. How good it felt to not worry about what someone else thought for a change. She felt in control and intended to thoroughly enjoy her evening.
When Julie left the dance floor looking for a cool drink, her ex-husband walked up to her and remarked that she looked good despite the extra pounds that she had put on. Instead of getting self-conscious, Julie told him that she was glad he thought so, and that she hadn’t felt so good in years. Just as he was about to say something, someone walked up to her and asked her to dance. Julie felt great as she danced off. She stood in HER truth and the outcome was fantastic.
Trevor stood back and observed the crowd. He had seen the exchanges that the girls had, and he was impressed. He hoped that he could follow through too. He knew that his co-workers joked about the fact that he still lived at home at his age, and he knew that the word had leaked into the neighboring office where Shelby worked. He wanted to ask her out, but was not sure how receptive she would be. After all, most men over 30 do not live at home. As he turned to find Phyllis to ask for advice, he bumped right into Shelby and had to grab her to keep her from falling! He immediately apologized and was amazed when she said that she was looking for him. He asked her to dance and while they were dancing she told him that she still lived at home too! Trevor was so pleased that he did not revert to his “old ways”. Had he paid attention to what his co-workers thought of him, he never would have asked her to dance.
The next day, when the three friends got together to reminisce, they had all learned a great deal from their “Coming Out”. They learned that being true to themselves was incredibly rewarding. They had not pay attention to the shoulds and ought to’s that typically surround them and decided to let the people with the beliefs worry about them, while they enjoyed their night. They were happy and had much higher self-esteem the next day. They knew that they were going to continue living their lives with the new motto firmly in place.
Are you being authentic and standing in your truth? Where are you letting others’ beliefs and expectations dictate your life? Are you minding someone else’s business? If so, isn’t it time to start doing your own thing and mind your own business? It’s their hang-up, not yours! My challenge to you is to release worrying about what others think of you and be willing to be your true, authentic self. The quality of your life will improve radically!
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About the Author:
Eva Gregory, CPCC, is a master coach, speaker and author of several programs and books including The Feel Good Guide to Prosperity. She has instructed tens of thousands in person, on the radio and in teleconferences, seminars and workshops on how to deliberately create a life by design using the Law of Attraction. As co-host of The Jeanna and Eva Show and The Law of Attraction Show on Exceptional Wisdom Radio, she has interviewed some of the most powerfully successful motivational experts today. Her new book, Life Lessons for Mastering the Law of Attraction, co-authored with Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hanson and Jeanna Gabellini, can be found in bookstores everywhere.
Copyright @2009 Eva Gregory. All rights reserved.
Abundance Queen Attracts Video Marketing Queen
Posted by at 30th July, 2009
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What an interesting time I had making this video. Several retakes as I was trying to remember what I had written and lost the natural flow. I have lost my ums since going to Toastmasters, and also a little sponteneity. 
Here is my written entry: Maria is yet to announce the winners. I have been doing Tia Sparkles Psych-K muscle testing and the attraction feels so strong a match.
Winning your coaching package will propel me into the leadership role I am ready for.
I will help so many people get clarity about what they do want in there lives and become Divine Deliberate Attractors. I know I inspire and empower people to lead lives full of joy, freedom and creativity.
Video I know this will be more powerful than writing and pod casting. I can see lawofattractioninaction.tv being the leading law of attraction and abundance internet channel where people like you will share their stories of success and this will inspire people of all ages. I am ready to model you;
I love winning prizes and I love a challenge. When I opened your email, clicked on the link and started watching a video where you talked about about using Law of Attraction to change your life, something shifted for me I loved your abundance quotes.
Here is my new monthly income 10 fold.
I am a Law of Attraction trainer and Abundance coach, an author, a blogger, an artist, and a lover of social media. I currently have almost 5000 twitter followers, a Law of Attraction in Action fan page in Face book. I am in the Millionairess League book and discovered that we have many common messages to share. I have a book emergings that is waiting to be shared with the world. The possibilities Social Media Traffic Blueprint will open up for me does make my heart sing.
I have finally realised after lots of trial and error, The way for me to successful is to be truly focused like a laser beam. To have one master system for my business. This will overcome the challenge I have wrestled with of “being all over the place” or as my friend Spirit Coach says “spinning my wheels”.
I will be able to bring together into one system my various business activities.
I see Social Media Traffic Blueprint as being that system. I spoke today with one of your success stories Brian Williams- I was inspired after watching your oovoo interview and headed to Brians Blog, left a comment and today talked with him on skype.
I understand from talking with Brian that this is not magic, taking massive action will be so important. I loved that he told me there was specific homework, a very supportive forum and that you were a fantastic coach. looks like I get the 3 things that have been missing for me in my business. One of my current restraints is I am making very little money from my Internet activities.
When I lift the constraints that I currently have and have a system, a coach I would love to model, my Law of attraction business will soar, my book will inspire people on paths of change and boost their self-esteem, I will create inspirational videos and books from my writing, my art and my love of nature and photography. Like Beach Inspirations. the possibilities are endless.
My freedom would be enhanced as I my income would be increasing. I would be living in our spacious airy home by the sea. I would be travelling business and first class, staying in 5 star resorts, visiting Macchu Piccu and other places on my dream map.
my laptop allows me the freedom to work where I want.I see myself with my soul mate Des living the life of our dreams, travelling and doing business where ever we like meeting so many of our social media friends. We will have time to spend with family and friends, visiting nieces and nephews in distant places.
When I am making a 5 figure income each month, my life will change, I will begin to experience the financial freedom I desire.
I know that having abundance, success and prosperity like Oprah, Richard Branson and now you Maria means you can make a difference , be inspirational and empower others. I have a passion to pass onto others the skills I currently have and the new found skills I will gain from your coaching and the Social Media Traffic Blueprint.
My financial and personal success will allow me to follow my passion to work with children and teenagers to develop tools and programs where their high self esteem will enable them to be successful in all areas of their lives. I will be able to empower others through working with KIVA, supporting schools in South Africa, Kenya and Tanzania, not to mention the people around the world that my videos will impact on.
I want to stand out from the crowd, take my business to a whole new level and Yes I am ready to own who I am. I look forward being your next success coaching story. Thank you Maria. I now attract only the highest vibrational people and things to me, I leave you the trailer for my book emergings for reflection. http://budurl.com/emergingstrailer
Thankyou for Inspiring me step up.
I will report back via twitter
be inspired
Suzie
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GOALS: Do Everything – On Purpose
Posted by at 28th July, 2009
By Eva Gregory, CPCC
Talk seems to be plentiful about "getting real" and "keeping it real" these days. But what exactly does that mean? One of the definitions of the word real is "being or occurring in fact or actuality; not imaginary or ideal." So basically, the talk is about dealing with what actually exists and not putting a happy spin on things. While it is definitely a good idea to know what is going on around you, being real is not the complete solution. Striving for your ideal, your passion, and your purpose — is. Comprehension of the present situation helps lay the foundation for the ideas that follow, but your present is just that. Dreams are imaginary until you’ve put action and purpose to them to make them become realities. A goal is nothing more than that until it has been achieved.
How many instances can you recall of people who made incredible contributions to society based upon their acknowledgement of their reality, and their fierce dedication to the pursuit of their passion and desire to change said reality? They weren’t afraid to stray from conventions and follow their own course. Think of something on a smaller scale, like Sadie Hawkins Day. Granted this day was created in the comic strips, but it was such a novel idea that it caught on in real life more than half a century ago. It was a huge thing for a female to ask a male out on a date. The creation of such a day alleviated the stigma and made it perfectly fine for a girl to ask a boy out. Think of the possible ripple-effects of such an esteem-building event. Women feeling free enough to take more of an active role. Think of how many lives have been shaped by something that was not real, but an idea conjured up by a writer. On a larger scale, look at the United States. This country was founded by people willing to break free of the norm, willing to embrace their passion and create a new reality. Our forefathers were definitely not lacking in purpose.
Your dreams may not have as widespread an impact, but they are just as important. Aren’t you worth having a life full of purpose and rich with passion? No one should be stuck in reality, unable to allow yourself to each beyond your present towards a future full of passion and purpose. Take a lesson from someone you admire. Very few people reach their desired goal without first dreaming of how to get there. Even if your dream seems farfetched, never be afraid to step outside of the box. Real need not be a path on the straight and narrow, but a journey to destinations only you can chart.
Take some time in the coming month to review where you’ve traveled and determine if or how it differs from where you want to be. Remember it all starts with you. What are your dreams and goals? Explore them, learn them, list them, and make them real too. You can achieve reality, but only if you’re real and honest enough with yourself to determine what it is you really feel passionate about. Just have fun with it and remember to keep it purposeful.
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You’re welcome to use this article online as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the "About The Author" info below:)
About the Author:
Eva Gregory, CPCC, is a master coach, speaker and author of several programs and books including The Feel Good Guide to Prosperity. She has instructed tens of thousands in person, on the radio and in teleconferences, seminars and workshops on how to deliberately create a life by design using the Law of Attraction. As co-host of The Jeanna and Eva Show and The Law of Attraction Show on Exceptional Wisdom Radio, she has interviewed some of the most powerfully successful motivational experts today. Her new book, Life Lessons for Mastering the Law of Attraction, co-authored with Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hanson and Jeanna Gabellini, can be found in bookstores everywhere.
Copyright @2009 Eva Gregory. All rights reserved.
Are You Being Honest With You?
Posted by at 28th July, 2009
Daily Guidance Cards by Doreen Virtue
Do you sometimes feel that, although you believe you are being honest with yourself, deep down you wonder if you are kidding yourself?
I had a sense of this recently.
Yesterday, walking on the beach, it finally dawned on me that constantly trying different business systems was not going to work for me. Apart from anythingelse it was exhausting.
Then I had my AHA! moment.
The way for me to successful would be to truly focus like a laser beam on one master system for my business. This will overcome the sense I have of “being all over the place” or as my friend Spirit Coach says “spinning my wheels”.
I will be able to bring together in one system my various business activities.
How am I going to do this? I have attracted a brilliant syatem which meets my needs
Last Saturday I was cleaning out my email deleting, unsubscribing and moving newsletters to a separate account when this email jumped out at me:
Suzie You Could Be one of 2 Winners that Get $5000 Worth of Coaching and Products From Me!…
I love winning prizes and I love a challenge. I opened this email, clicked on the link and started watching a video where Maria Andros talked about how she used the Law of Attraction to change her life. I loved her abundance quotes. Maria and her message spoke to me.
I was excited and said I am going to enter this competition and win one of two scholarships Maria is going to give to her Social Media Blueprint coaching program.
Today I am going to write out my vision and make my video for why I want to be coached my Maria Andros.
You can watch the video here
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Acid-Alkaline Diet Ebook: FREE
Posted by at 28th July, 2009
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