Posted by at 26th June, 2009
If you push someone what happens? Chances are they will push back. If you grab someone’s hand and pull them, what happens? They pull away from you. If someone is needy and is grasping at you for your love and attention, what do you do? Most people pull away. Grasping at something you want can actually stop you from having it. Repelling something you don’t want, can make it push at you even harder.
People grasp and repel in many arenas in life. They grasp at things they want. They grasp at receiving pleasure. They repel people and things they don’t like. What they don’t realize is that the constant grasping and repelling, not only creates the outcome they don’t want, but puts them in a lot of stress and drains their energy.
In personal development, grasping and repelling will stop you in your tracks. You can’ heal something you avoid looking at. If you avoid and deny that you have an alcohol problem, for example, the problem will persist, or get worse. It is only through shining the transformative light of awareness on something that it can heal and be integrated.
If you wish to manifest your hopes, dreams and desires and activate the Law of Attraction, the best state to do this in is being in the flow of life. You must allow what you desire to be, not grasp at it. Grasping at something implies that you don’t have it. If you don’t energetically have it first, you won’t have it in form.
When you allow both the good and the bad without grasping and repelling, you enter into the the powerful flow of the now moment that flows through self and all of life. You naturally move into a state of well being that is more aligned with your desires manifest, activating the Law of Attraction.
There is a powerful Japanese martial art form called Aikido. Ai means harmony. Ki means spirit. Do means ‘the way of’ or ‘the road to’. In other words, Aikido means ‘the way of harmonized spirit’. The key difference between Aikido and other martial arts is that you don’t repel or block a person attacking you, you flow with punch or kick, using the energy of their momentum for yourself.
Do this in your life and you will have more energy to manifest what you wish to manifest. Instead of resisting things you don’t like and pushing them away, simply allow them to flow through you and dissapate. This puts you in the universal flow of life as you move into living in the now moment.
Be aware of where you are grasping at things in life. Imagine having your desires manifest. Grow the sensation of your desires manifest in your inner world. Do this without grasping at them and you allow them to move from being to having. Grasping prevents the having. For example, if you wish more abundance in your life, imagine yourself being abundant. Imagine what you will buy, what you will do, and most importantly how good you will feel with your abundance. If you are grasping at it, it means you don’t yet have it. Let the grasping go and have it in your inner world (your thoughts, feelings and imagination). As you do this you open the door to having it in your outer world as well.
Living in the Flow has other advantages. One obvious one is that when you are not repelling or grasping at things in life, you have more energy, and less stress. You are more relaxed and because of this are able to get more done in less time. One can only surmise that living a relaxed, stress free life with more energy would be better for your health and longevity.
Want to increase your well-being and more powerfully activate the Law of Attraction in your life? Be aware of where you grasp and repel in your life. Consciously let the grasping and repelling go. Allow whatever is to be. As you do so, you begin to live in the Flow where all good things reside.
Posted by at 20th February, 2009
“To be in the now moment means that you release all of the problems, all of the worries, and you bring the full of yourself to here and now. And within that now moment, your now moment allows your source to flow through you into your life.” The Oracle
The now moment is infinitely small, yet infinitely big. In its smallness, it contains nothing. Yet, the moment of the now contains everything. Because the now moment contains nothing, to be in the now, you must let everything go and empty.
For a moment, empty yourself of everything. Let everything go. Let your problems go. Let your to do lists go. Let your preoccupations go. Let your thoughts and feelings go. As you empty you enter the Golden Flow. The Flow moves from the Source that you are, into your persona, through your body and into your life. This Flow contains a beautiful dream where all your deepest hopes and desires are manifest. The only thing missing from this dream is you. When you are in the Golden Flow of the now moment you are able to step into the dream and it becomes manifest in your life. This is one of the ’secrets’ of The Law of Attraction. To the degree you align to the bigger dream of your life, it becomes real.
When you are having mental machinations, worries, or charged emotions, your energy is pulled away from the Source that you are. You are off center. Your center exists in the now. It is from the place of being on center that spiritual growth and evolution occurs. The center of a river is where the current flows strongest. It is the center of self where Source energy flows most powerfully.
Take the time to find your now moments. Tell your mind to let it all go, even if only for a few minutes. Tell your mind it can come back to its concerns later, but for now, empty. Do this often. As you do the tremendous power of Source’s flow begins to move through you. Then, hang onto your hat as your life moves in wonderful ways.
Kristopher
Posted by at 26th December, 2008
You are a multidimensional being. Most people are aware of their persona, which consists of thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and their physical body. However, there is another aspect of Who you are, an aspect that contains your greatness and glory. This aspect has many different names such as Source Energy, Higher Self, Core Being, and so on. What you call it is not important. What is important is that you come to know that your Source Energy exists in a natural state of Abundance, Health and Love. Your Source Energy is much larger than the persona and more powerful. However, the persona has the free will to choose whether to allow the energy of the Source that you are to flow through you or not. The key to tap into the beautiful golden energy of your Source is allowance.
It is good to ponder the word allow. Where do you allow in your life? Where do you not allow? Do you have beliefs that are not tolerant of new ideas? Do you allow the people you encounter in your life to be who they are? Perhaps most importantly, do you allow the greatness and glory that you are to flow through you and into your life? This is a time in humanity where people are empowered to plant the seeds of their greatness. The biggest factor that stops or limits your greatness is not allowing. You must allow your greatness to be.
One of the biggest misperceptions the human persona has is that it must make and create its life on its own. It doesn’t. You are a co-creator. The bigger You that you are, has great power in helping you manifest what you desire. In its natural flow, your Source Energy is always creating. However, the personality has the free will to block the creation. If the persona were to simply allow your greatness to be, all of your deepest hopes, dreams and desires would be manifest now, and you would be ready for the next leap in the expansion of Self.
To be in the flow of the bigger You, you must be in a state of complete allowance. It is the holding onto the illusion of control that stops the flow. The truth is you can’t control your life. Life is much larger than the persona. But, you can allow the bigger, more powerful part of you to work with you and through you to support you and create a wondrous life. So many people try to control their lives. They have long lost the trust in their Source. They have lost the trust that their Source works through life to support them. If they were only to allow the power of their Source Energy to flow through them, they would realize that there is no need to try to control. Source is always ready to work with you to manifest your deepest desires. Nevertheless, it will not override the persona’s free will. When you choose to allow your Source Energy to flow through your life, your life can’t help but to reflect back to you good things.
Be aware of the degree you allow in all areas of your life. As you are able to relax and allow, more well-being will flow into your life and will be reflected in your outer world. Health, abundance and love, which are things you don’t need to create, you simply need to allow them to be, will flow in and through you. The bigger You that you are is already in a natural state of love, health and abundance. All you, the persona needs to do is to allow Source Energy to flow through you and you will realize your greatness and glory in every aspect of your life. We call this flow the Golden Flow.
Kristopher
Posted by at 9th December, 2008

“The Universe Conspires to Support You”
The Oracle
Everywhere you go, your Source Energy, the Universe is there supporting you and guiding you in the most fantastic ways, and often in the most unexpected places.
This is a power sign I received as I was disembarking off my plane in Albuquerque airport. I looked up and there was the message I needed at that moment.
Messages like this occur frequently if you only just allow it. When you are in the Golden Flow of Allowance, open and accepting, your Source Energy is able to guide and support you in each moment of your life.
It is a wonderful feeling to know that you are supported in The Flow.
Kristopher
http://golden-flow-system.com
Posted by at 24th October, 2008
To the degree you are in the state of well being, you are in the flow of life and you activate the Law of Attraction.
The closer you are to a state of well being, the quicker you will attract that which you desire, be it love, wealth, health, a new home, a rewarding career, spiritual connection, and so on. This is the basis of the Law of Attraction. This IS the missing piece in The Secret.
Why is this so? And, more importantly, how do you raise your level of being to that of ‘well being’ in order to empower and speed up your manifestation process?
In the book, The Secret, it is stated that your dominate thoughts attract what is coming to you in your life. Through visualizing and purposely thinking about what you desire, you set the Law of Attraction in motion. Think about wealth and you will attract wealth, for example. However, later in the book it is pointed out by Michael Beckwith and Jack Canfield, that thoughts alone are only part of the picture. In order to use the Law of Attraction, you must also FEEL abundant, or loving. They acknowledge that in addition to aligning your thoughts to that you wish to manifest, you must also align positive feelings with it. To put the Laws of Attraction into action, not only must you think or visualize what you desire, you must feel it.
In The Secret, Jack Canfield puts it this way, “A lot of people think, “If I think positive thoughts, or if I visualize having what I want, that will be enough.” But if you’re doing that and still not feeling abundant, or feeling loving or joyful, then it doesn’t create the power of the attraction”.(Byrne PG 85)
Another step that is often overlooked is aligned actions. To create your reality in accordance to your desires, you need to think aligned thoughts, feel aligned feelings, and take aligned actions. So, for example, say you wish to create wealth. You will want to think wealthy thoughts (perhaps visualize yourself in wealth), feel what it will feel like to have the wealth, and then take actions that would take if wealthy.In simple terms, it is about alignment. All aspects of who you are must be aligned to your desire. But wait, we have left out the most important aspect of who you are, your beingness. This critical piece is the piece that is often overlooked in The Secret. Not only must your thoughts, pictures (visualizations), and feelings be in alignment to your desire, your entire being must be aligned to activate the Law of Attraction. In other words, not only must you think and feel what you desire.
You must BE what you desire.
Beingness is defined in the dictionary as one’s essential nature. It is who you are at your essence. This is sometimes referred to as your Essential Self. Who you are at this level of self is naturally, love, abundance, peace, and happiness. So, to be abundant, you must literally BE abundance, which is naturally what you are at your level of being. If you want a loving relationship, you must BE love, which is also what you are at your level of being.
When you live from the level of your essential nature, you can’t help but to continually attract good things into your life. This is because your essential nature is love, abundance, peace, bliss, joy, happiness – all in unending supply. The Law of Attraction must respond to this accordingly. It is the Law of the Universe.
In the beginning of this article, I promised I would talk about how to move into the state of Well Being. You can see how living from your level of being is really what well-being is all about. When you are living from being, you can’t help but feel good. Feeling well is your natural state of being.
The question is then, how do you live from your natural state of being. The easiest way to move into your state of being is to let go of anything that is not your state of being. Negative, charged emotions, for example, are in opposition to your natural being. Your beingness is free flowing, always moving along in the flow of the universe, sometimes called universal flow. If you have resistances to anything in your life, you stop your flow, and move into opposition to your natural state of being, your Essential Self.
To release anything, the first step is to welcome it in and allow it. If someone at your workplace brings up emotional charges, for example, simply allow the charges to come up. Allow them to have space in your awareness, even if temporary. When they are up the next step is to release them and let them go. This is actually easier than it seems. The process is – welcome and allow whatever is there (e.g. resistance, fear, negativity, someone or something in your life that causes you stress), and then gently release and let go.
Do the above process in various arenas in your life that may be causing you stress or worry. As you do so, you become more free and naturally move into beingness, your Essential Self. The more you live from your beingness, that is naturally, love, abundance, peace, happiness, and so on, the more the Law of Attraction must bring corresponding good things into your life.
Using universal laws, such as the Law of Attraction is not always easy, but it is simple. You can quicken the process using tools such as the Golden Flow System. If you would like a free recording of an actual Golden Flow process, simply click on the link below, or go to http://golden-flow-system.com .
You CAN have it all. You are MEANT to. Why not live from your natural state of happiness, love, health and abundance? Simply allow and release and you will move into the beautiful state of beingness. Then simply enjoy allowing the Law of Attraction go to work for you.